Key Takeaways
- Planning your bridal outfits and jewelry is important for every event leading up to the wedding, including the engagement party, bridal shower, and bachelorette party.
- While your engagement ring should be the star of the show for some events, like the engagement party, it can take a back seat to other jewelry and accessories during casual events, like the bachelorette.
- Make sure you have a few different options for upcoming events, including minimalist matching pieces for the engagement party, fun accessories for the bachelorette, and a showstopping set for your actual wedding day.
Engagement Party Jewelry
Since the engagement party is introducing you as a couple that’s about to be wed, the entire guest list will likely be seeing your engagement ring for the first time. Let the focus of the event be the ring and follow these tips to ensure this symbolic piece truly shines.
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Don’t Wear Any Other Rings
It may be tempting to add a cocktail ring to your other hand or wear your wedding band if you already have it. Don’t do it! Other rings will distract from your engagement ring, so let this one piece be the center of attention.
Other Jewelry Should Fit the Theme
If your engagement ring has a specific theme or gemstone color, style your earrings, bracelets, and necklace to match. Many popular engagement ring styles feature vintage elements, colorful gemstones, or floral designs.
Keep it Simple
You can and should wear other jewelry to ensure your ensemble feels complete, but don’t let other jewelry pieces overwhelm your engagement ring. Opt for a few minimalist pieces that match your ring but stay in the background of your look.
Bridal Shower Jewelry

Since the bridal shower is a pure celebration of you with your girls, it’s the perfect place to experiment with more unique pieces that complement your engagement ring. It’s also an amazing opportunity to give the bridal party jewelry that matches your bridal jewelry aesthetic.
If you choose to give bridal party jewelry at this event, it could be a fun reveal to wear the matching set you plan to give your bridesmaids yourself. Encourage your bridesmaids to open their gifts and wear them right away so the entire bridal party matches for the day!
Some top recommendations for bridal shower jewelry that you can also gift your bridesmaids include:
Extravagant Drop Earrings
If you want to have a single showstopping piece, you should consider dedicating your entire budget to a pair of impressive drop earrings. Match the earrings to your wedding theme with diamond-encrusted pieces for a winter wedding or Art Deco designs for a vintage event.
Earring & Bracelet Set
Diamond studs and a matching tennis bracelet make a classic choice for you and your bridesmaids. These pieces are subtle but can pack a ton of sparkle if you get the right carat size. Consider studs that measure in at two carats, paired with tennis bracelets that feature a total of 3-5 carats.
Bangle Set
This is the right choice for boho weddings and bridal events in more casual settings. Bangle sets can be color-themed and allow for a customized stack, so every girl can have a set that speaks to her while still fitting in with your wedding and bridal event aesthetic.
Bachelorette Party Jewelry
Bachelorette parties are designed to be lighthearted, playful, and fun, so let your jewelry reflect the vibe! You might choose jewelry with a more casual feel, including pieces with charms, colorful enamel, or bright gemstones. You may also want to prioritize personalized pieces, like monogrammed necklaces or earrings.
If your bachelorette party is at a pool or on a boat, consider getting durable, waterproof jewelry that can withstand all the activities for the day. Your bachelorette party jewelry shouldn’t be fine jewelry unless your event is a sedate and glamorous one. Let your personality shine for the bachelorette party with fun or funky pieces that you wouldn’t normally wear, like anklets, toe rings, and other unique styles.
Wedding Day Jewelry

It’s finally here! The big day has arrived, and your wedding jewelry set should make you look like the crown jewel. Here are some tips to ensure your wedding jewelry set enhances your overall ensemble:
Stay on Theme
This is the day when matching your engagement ring is most important. Match everything from gemstone color and size to the gem shape and cut to ensure cohesiveness.
Match Your Dress
The neckline of your dress is a major factor in choosing the right necklace. Consider a pendant for a V-neckline or a choker for strapless styles. This is also a great place for your “something borrowed.”
Consider Your Hairstyle
Earrings can be complicated, depending on your hairstyle. Diamond or pearl studs are a classic choice, but may get lost if you’re wearing your hair down, while bolder styles may clash with hair pieces or necklaces. Find the balance by trying on a few different styles with your wedding hair already done to make the best choice.
Don’t Forget Hair Accessories
Your hair is often the focal point of the wedding day. Whether you choose to accentuate it with a veil, crown, or florals, let your accessories here dictate the rest of your wedding jewelry. More ornate accessories in your hair should encourage you to tone down the rest of your jewelry, while simpler styles in your hair allow for more opulent earrings, necklaces, and bracelets.
Stay Flexible
Finding the perfect jewelry for every part of your celebrations requires a bit of planning and forethought, so plan well in advance and stay flexible to ensure you can accommodate any changes to your outfits and hairstyles. Most importantly, make sure your engagement ring is clean and well-fitting, so even if you decide not to wear any other jewelry, the most important piece still shines bright.
